Herdle was created to make it easier to meet people in real life — whether for friendship, dating, or shared experiences. But with the excitement of new connections also comes the responsibility to keep yourself safe. Whether you’re joining a group hike, organising a one-on-one coffee, or setting up your first date, a few simple guidelines can help you feel confident and in control.
Here are our top tips for using Herdle safely:
1. Start in Public Places
Until you feel completely comfortable with someone, always choose public locations for your meetups. Think cafes, bars, markets, festivals, dog parks, or beach walks. These environments are not only more relaxed, but they also offer natural exit points if things feel off.
Avoid private locations or getting picked up or dropped off by someone you’ve only just met — even if the chat has been great.
2. Bring a Friend (Or a Few)
Not sure about meeting someone one-on-one just yet? Use Herdle to plan or join a group activity. Whether it’s a casual drink with a few others, a group dinner, or a quiz night, shared settings can ease nerves and give you a chance to observe dynamics naturally.
Bonus: Group events help filter out people who are only looking for short-term interactions — if they’re not up for something social, that’s telling.
3. Keep Your Personal Info Personal
You might click with someone right away — but take your time. Don’t share your home address, work location, or travel plans until trust has been established over time and preferably in person.
Herdle is about making real connections, not rushing them.
4. Trust Your Gut — Always
If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. Don’t ignore red flags. You don’t owe anyone your time, energy, or a second chance. It’s okay to leave early, block someone, or simply change your mind.
Use the in-app reporting tools to flag anything that feels unsafe or inappropriate — whether that’s a message, a profile, or someone’s behaviour at an event.
5. Let Someone Know Your Plans
Before meeting someone new (especially one-on-one), share your plans with a friend or family member. Let them know where you’re going, who you’re meeting, and what time you expect to be home. You can even set up a check-in text.
Some Herdle users even drop a pin or share their live location temporarily — easy peace of mind.
6. Avoid Pressure & Set Boundaries
No one should pressure you to meet faster, stay longer, drink more, or go somewhere else than what was agreed on. Healthy connections respect boundaries. If someone reacts badly to a limit you’ve set, that’s not someone worth continuing with.
Boundaries aren’t rude — they’re smart.
7. Report & Block When Needed
If someone behaves in a way that makes you uncomfortable or violates our community guidelines, please report them. You’re not overreacting, and your report could help protect someone else too.
We review every report seriously and keep your identity confidential.
Your Safety Is Non-Negotiable
At Herdle, we want to help you build a better social life — but not at the cost of your comfort or safety. We’ve built this app with real-life connections in mind, but your wellbeing comes first, always.
Meeting new people can be exciting, fun, and transformative. When you follow a few simple safety practices, it can also be something you look forward to again and again.
